I’m done with ordinary. I am ready to pivot and shift!

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I’m done with ordinary, and I am ready to pivot and shift.

 

Within one week, I was challenged by 3 different people, 3 different ways on 3 separate occasions.

 

What do you want?

Where do you see yourself?

What is your 5-year plan?

 

What do you mean I thought!!

 

We (my lil family and I) had just pulled off our big bold relocation from Australia to NZ and were now living it.

 

But …

 

Beyond knowing what my wildly important goal was, it suddenly dawned on me that I had no idea and it scared me.

 

After a few days of being hard on myself because "𝘏𝘡𝘒𝘺 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘢𝘭π˜₯ 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 π˜£π˜¦π˜΅π˜΅π˜¦π˜³β€, I put pen to paper once again and started asking myself …

 

What do I want?

Where do I want to end up?

What do I want to be doing?

Who do I want to be sharing my time with?

 

I must admit the process wasn't easy at first. It exposed some vulnerable truths for me, like:

 

* Holy shit, your daughter will be finished high school in just over a year and your other one isn’t that far behind.

What am I setting them up for OR worse, who will I be without them?

 

* Your parents are only getting older and someday they may need more support.

 

Even though this process was uncomfortable, it was also exciting. Especially when the ideas started to flow and make sense.

 

It enabled me to experience some beautiful and insightful realisations like:

 

* More clarity about my way forward and knowing what my next steps were.

* Understanding where I stand and the part I need to play in creating opportunities for myself.

* Expansion of interests, ideas, and skills for a future that I want and deserve.

 

Just by working on this and taking action, I have already begun to collapse the timeline.

 

 

* If this post resonates with your or,

* It has you questioning your own 5-year plan or,

* You'd like to know my process so that you can use it for yourself

 

Then send me a DM and I'll be in touch. x

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