I’ve come to embrace it as a source of strength

Instead of viewing my “shyness” as a limitation, I’ve come to embrace it as a source of strength.

 

For as long as I can remember, being labelled as shy often carried a negative connotation, as if it was a flaw that needed fixing. 

 

I’ve decided to “reframe” shy and instead recognise the unique strengths that come with being “reserved”

 

Here’s why ...

 

Silent Confidence.

I don’t need to always have my say or prove I know the answer. Because in my mind, I already know.

There’s a silent confidence that comes with being reserved. I’ve realised that I don’t always have to speak up to assert my knowledge or competence. My actions and results speak louder than words ever can.

Deep Thinker.

Appreciating my reserved nature has allowed me to tap into my inner world of thoughts and ideas. I often find myself quietly contemplating, analysing, and strategizing … becoming an invaluable asset in my problem-solving and decision-making.

Active Listener.

When I’m not busy trying to dominate conversations, I become a better listener. I genuinely pay attention to what others are saying and NOT saying. This allows me to understand their perspectives and concerns more deeply. 

Focus and Productivity.

Sometimes I have no need to discuss things. I’m often already quietly working on the next thing. My introverted nature allows me to maintain laser-like focus often translating to increased productivity and a higher quality of work.

Creative Outlet.

My quiet moments provide me with the perfect opportunity to explore my creative side. Whether it’s through writing or other endeavours. I’ve found that my introspective nature allows me to express myself in unique and meaningful ways.

 

There’s more than meets the eye when it comes to us [shy | introverted | reserved | quiet | boring] people, and there are many advantages that come with it.

 

Being reserved doesn’t mean lack of confidence or skills, it just means you have a unique way of approaching life.

 

We don’t always have to be the loudest voice in the room to make a significant impact. Sometimes us quiet ones are sitting on the sidelines taking big strides.