Attention Men! Let Your Women In

Recently, I found myself in deep conversation with some men, one of them my husband. As the night stretched on (and many drinks were consumed), we covered some big stuff—life, its challenges, the things that weigh us down, and the importance of seeking support.
One thing that stood out to me was the resistance men sometimes feel when it comes to opening up. There's this unspoken pressure to handle things alone, to always stay strong.
But here’s the truth: strength doesn't come from holding it all in; it comes from sharing the load. And one of the most powerful ways to do that is by letting the people who care about you in.
When they asked me: “Htay what do you think?”
I said: "Guys - You gotta let your women in. We want to be there for you through the ups and downs, but we also need to know what you want. It’s not just about being a support system; it's about building trust and creating a partnership where we can lean on each other”
Being vulnerable isn’t a weakness, and letting others in doesn’t diminish you. There’s a lot of growth and healing that comes from sharing.
Through years of lived experience and professional development, I’ve learned how to meet my husband where he is at, build a stronger bond, and truly work as a team. But it wasn’t always this way. Prior to my growth, I often let my feelings get in the way, took things personally, and couldn’t fully understand his perspective. As a result, communicating on the hard stuff began to break down. I eventually realised that if things were going to turn around, the change had to start with me. Acknowledging my own role in the communication gap was key. Doing the inner work, taking responsibility, and making those changes has not only strengthened our relationship but has also encouraged him to reciprocate. We've both learned the importance of being patient, staying calm, and knowing when to let things go, creating space for growth.
To the beautiful women supporting our men:
Be mindful that the men in your life might hold back because they feel the pressure to always be strong. They may fear judgment, worry about burdening you, or think you might not fully understand. It’s not that they don’t want to share; they just need reassurance that it's safe to let their guard down.
Recognise their brilliance and the big ideas they might be holding in. They often have dreams and aspirations they hesitate to voice, fearing they won’t be met with understanding or support. By encouraging them to share those thoughts, you can help them realise their potential and reinforce the idea that their voice matters.
Try to create a space where they feel truly heard and supported, without feeling judged. This might mean setting aside your own emotions at that moment. Instead of making it about how you feel, simply listen with the intention to understand. Sometimes, what they need most is someone to be there for them, offering understanding rather than solutions or responses.
With love ... Htay
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