When you go and love someone for exactly who they are AND allow them to explore who they want to become …   Growth is inevitable in the both of you.   Back story …   A long time ago, I use to complain about my man not stepping up, when in fact, I was…

They say that pain travels through families until someone is ready to feel it. At times, we may not think we are ready, but the undeniable truth is that we feel it!   Today we live in a world where many of us are quick to solve problems as they arise yet, we often fail…

What if that one conversation or a series of conversations were…   That life changing event Permission to go ahead or, A sign that determines it all for you   How would things be different for you?   This happened 2 months ago, after a two-year soul pursuit in search of my own people here…

Breaking new ground doesn’t require anyone’s approval.   But I think for women who are at a crossroads, who have been conditioned to seek approval, conform to societal norms and downplay their ambitions …   Don’t realise that their intuition is often providing them with the answers all along.   But at what point do…

Blossoming into who I am today, has been one of the best things I could have done for myself and my family, (even if not everyone can see that just yet)   However, it didn’t come without sacrifice.   I moved away from my parents and my siblings which has been challenging for us all.…

When you decide you want any kind of improvement in your life, you’re gonna have to confront some of your shit.   So, if anyone tells you that in order to get what you want you just need to put it out there to the universe and be positive all time, I want you to…

Until you can 𝙙𝙚𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙚 your own “version of success” you will continually find yourself competing with other people’s versions.   But … What they want and where they are heading might not be the same for you and, comparing yourself to someone else’s timeline will only make you feel inadequate.   It’s OK if your…

Sometimes we think we need to go the extra mile to accomplish great things ]   But when the “extra mile” is crowded with the wrong people, it can feel off.   Especially when you know that you’re not honouring your needs for the sake of expansion.   Or   You’re an introvert like me…

You can work a 9-5 and be a mum without sacrificing your happiness.   But … society these days continually tells us that working for someone else’s deadline is a bad thing or the barrier to living a life that you enjoy.   However, you can work for someone else in a job that fulfils…

They are the very two things that will shape and shift me to my next level.   Yet, they are the very two things I was all in for … for only a short while.   I’ve been sitting with myself for the past week putting pen to paper, reflecting on the year that was…